Since childhood, I’ve often wondered: why does the language of life feel so much like the language of grammar? Both are filled with nuances, rules, and occasional exceptions, yet somehow, they coexist beautifully.

As I sit here reflecting on my journey, I realize how much my love for English grammar has shaped not only my understanding of words but also my understanding of life.

Much of my passion for teaching is rooted in the wisdom of my grandfather, the late Sh. Leela Dutt Sharma, whose quiet influence guided me toward the art of learning.

But my fascination with grammar? That was something deeper, something that grew quietly within me, even as a child. There was something captivating about how grammar—the seemingly rigid rules and structures—could give life to thoughts, emotions, and ideas.

As I reflect on life, I see it mirrored in the language I love. Life, like grammar, has its rules—some simple, some complex, and many difficult to understand. Yet, both are worth mastering. The beauty lies not in avoiding the complexity but in embracing it, in finding joy in the tricky turns, the unexpected exceptions. After all, if life were as simple as a string of perfect sentences, would we really cherish it? It is the imperfections, the stumbles, that teach us the most.

Grammar teaches us that there is a structure to everything, a rhythm to follow. But it also shows us that sometimes, breaking the rules can lead to new possibilities. In life, too, there are moments when you must step outside the lines, rewrite the rules, and carve your own path. The complexity of grammar mirrors the unpredictability of life—both are puzzles waiting to be solved, and in their solving, we find growth and beauty.

Yet, even in its challenges, grammar offers us something powerful: clarity. With each new rule learned, each new structure mastered, we gain the tools to express ourselves more clearly. Life is no different. Understanding its challenges, its intricate rules, allows us to move through it with purpose and strength. The deeper we go, the more we realize that the complexity is not there to hinder us, but to help us grow.

I have always believed that mastering grammar is not just about mastering language—it’s about mastering the art of thought, expression, and ultimately, life itself. Every rule, every exception, every challenge that comes our way is an opportunity to grow. Life, like grammar, is a journey, and the more we understand its rhythms, the more we can create something meaningful from it.

I am grateful that my journey with grammar has led me to a deeper understanding of life. Both are complex, both are beautiful, and both offer endless opportunities for growth. As I share these reflections with you, my hope is that you, too, will see the beauty in the structure, the joy in the complexity, and the freedom in mastering both.

My take on Grammar and life…